Francis' cup analogy...
Asking people for advice, not all advice are suitable for you.
Make sure to evaluate, and reflect.
Unconscious effort "concerned about how other people perceive you is not a useful thing at all"
Listen to what other people have to say.
If other people care about you, it is a bonus.
K is looking for long-term relationships.

Down time:
So, invest time & care: [Work, family, immediate concern]
Stress can be bad or good - it depends on how you set it up for yourself.
Ask yourself why? Can it be resolved today and now?
Being prepare to face the worst situation may be helpful in reducing stress.
How can I accomplish this? [This is called the stress receiver].

Stuff from previous class:
You are an achiever because your persistence has paid off!
Be persistent and positive, with your enthusiasm in an open manner.

T.I.L.P.T.S.I.M
1. Humourous & funny. 2. Quick think on my feet type (spontaneous). 3. Analytical.
Be myself (after using D.C. principle to lay a foundation for my relationships.
Improve self-confidence.

W.O.P.H.S.A.M
warm, caring, fast learner, keen at improving personal relationships, become more confident.

A.N.T.F.
1. Humourous. 2. Strong will. 3. Dedication, passion. 4. Self motivated. 5. Always on top of jobs. 6. Warm an caring. 7. Flexible, Adaptive to circumstances and comfort zones.

F/F
18. Be sympathetic with the other person's p.o.v.
20. Dramatize your ideas.

Result - better understanding of each other; help each other.

M.V.I.36.M. 5/9/2008
I am a confident multi-task speaker and organizer.
Show appreciateion & encouragement to my friends and to my peers.
I will commit to what I have already done/promised. Be enthusiastic about the smallest things. Add enthusiasm to my work.
Motivate other people to do the same.
How to stimulate my thinking.
Don't be tary/ tary things too long.
IDHAF -why? How come?
.How, What, Why?

I really don't have too much problem w/ getting people to like me - so really it's about getting in touch w/ other people.

If you don't try to understand the other person, you may not be able to communicate or have a good relationship for them (gives them the idea that you're too selfish).